A look at the feeling of bewilderment, in relationships and individuals, which involves looking at signs and details that reveal a vague perception of absence, something missing, something lacking.
You tend to put distance between the perception of that bewilderment and its cause.
You need (therefore) a reminder on the nightstand.

Sociological or psychological reasons are beyond my ability and willingness to describe the subject. But the basic idea is that the malaise of society close to us is often worsened when we don’t know how or don't want to link our emotional state with the reality, with the objective truth, with the perception of where and how we live.
Keeping your feet on the ground is the opposite of bewilderment. A starting point.